Dear Salina”

My advice is that you choose your fiancé over your mother.

You wrote, “my family is my family”. Yes, but if loyalty to one’s family means the destruction of one’s life, then there is nothing good about such loyalty, it is not a good idea.

Reads like your mother is irresponsible, nothing you can do to change it. If your relationship with your fiancé is a good one, hold on to it, protect it, first and foremost. Don’t bring in a person into his home who makes him uncomfortable. It is not fair to him and will harm him and the relationship with him.

I hope to read more from you.

anita