Dear Sara:

“I am not sure what he wants”. Maybe he is with you because he has nothing better to do with his time. So he feels bored, not interested, but it is something for him to do.

You wrote that you “want an open conversation”, well this is something you know you want with a man. And you don’t want those arguments, so you know what you don’t want.

You wrote, “better the devil you know than the devil you don’t”- I wonder what other devil like, in your home of origin, perhaps, you know and pretends to not know, perhaps?

anita