Dear joanna:

You wrote in your recent post that he was drunk a lot of the time, following the first date. Five pages of communication on this thread and no mention of him being drunk, no mention of alcohol.

I now don’t know if he was drunk (page 6) or if he was not drunk (pages 1-5).

You wrote, “I never lied on purpose…getting panic attacks most of the time (while posting here). Well, this right here is a lie: you did not suffer panic attacks while typing here. Panic attack do not allow a person to sit and compose sentence after sentence, paragraph after paragraph, with punctuation marks and following a logical sequence.

You might post next that you didn’t mean panic attacks, that in your native language panic attacks mean something else. Will you be posting that to me next, that panic attacks do  not mean the same thing in your language?

My trust in you telling me the truth no longer exists. But this doesn’t mean that you can not aim at honest communication with others. If not on this forum, then elsewhere. I was not always honest myself. Sometimes I lied, in the past. Turn your attention to the future, to getting better, healing best you can, through honest communication with honest people. My wishes are the best for you as always.

anita