Dear miranam:

Are you saying then the following regarding your younger son ?:

1. “people are born selfish” and so, your son was born selfish as well.

2. “there was nothing utterly wrong in the environment” into which your son was born and in which he has grown up so far.

3. Your son genetically inherited “anger and/or anxiety” that led him to resist the proper education that you and your husband provided him, and therefore he did not become altruistic. Instead he remained selfish (and arrogant as well).

4. Your son’s anger at you has nothing to do with the nature of his interactions with you, his mother throughout his 13 years and everything to do with his genetics that were set before he was born?

*I will soon be away from the computer for about 15 hours.

anita