Dear Anita,

“Reads like he was way less sensible/ mature than you, expecting spark and butterflies on a regular, “every second”. Not possible and probably not a good idea to be sparked up and butterflied every second, 24/7, if it was possible.

Reads like he has his type, that ideal look for him, but he was willing to settle for something else for as long as he was sparked and butterflied, that is, for as long as he had the experience he wanted. When he lost that experience, he broke up with you. I suppose the honest, real reason was just that, that he lost the spark-and-butterflies-experience”

That is what I thought :/  He seemed so mature, confident and selfless. I can’t believe he said all those mean things about the way I look, I am still in shock

I think he was so wrapped up in his own head, that he pointed every reasons why he wanted to end it without paying attention to the way I felt and without trying to minimise my pain.

How will I know if someone is truly empathic ?

Thank you 🙂

• This reply was modified 6 years, 3 months ago by Flower.