Dear Lisa:

You are welcome.

A few more thoughts: I wouldn’t be offended by a man’s sexual interest but I wouldn’t be flattered either. It is very important to determine a man’s motivation and honesty or lack of, in this regard.

My rule of honesty is that whatever I say has to be true. I don’t say everything that I think and feel, but what I do say is true and none of what I say is meant to mislead and dishonestly manipulate another.

Respect is very important. Many men see women as sexual objects to use for their sexual satisfaction and that is humiliating. So yes, I would stay away from men who think of women that way.

anita