Dear Yohanes:

“My partner got sick and shout at me for no reason”- you are referring to your work partner, not your girlfriend, I understand.

You were very distressed over the work issue, went to your girlfriend looking for comfort but instead of comfort she accused you of wrongdoing for having pictures of your ex girlfriend on your phone from two years before, pictures you forgot to delete.

You then got angry at your girlfriend, got drunk and messaged her that you hate her.

Question: those pictures on your phone, was that the first time your girlfriend mentioned them or did she ask you before to delete them and you didn’t? Also, how did she manage to see those pictures: did she look into your phone without your knowledge?

anita