Dear Yohanes:

No, I don’t have whatssap and I don’t communicate with members outside these Forums.

I understand that she told you that she loves you very much but I don’t know if that means that you are the guilty one in the relationship and she is the innocent one. I don’t know if part of that love of hers, she keeps blaming you for supposed wrongs. If she does, that behavior is not loving.

If you want to elaborate on her behavior toward you here on your thread, to look into whether it is loving, or not, and to whether you are the only one needing to change in this relationship (“I can change”), please do.

anita