Dear Naia:

I read your previous thread about the ending of the relationship with your boyfriend, this is the thread you are referring to, the one of 16 days ago?

You wrote that you have a long term friend who is “the sweetest person… shy, introverted, not assertive”, and although you don’t fear her, you are kind to her. On the other hand, your other long term friend can be “destructive and malevolent” when she gets upset.

To understand better I ask: how has she been destructive and malevolent so far to you or to others, specifically?

anita