Dear Laika:

You are welcome and thank you. As to your question for me best that you and him make this list separately, each not knowing what the other is listing and then compare the  lists.

You wrote later in a post to another member that he tells you that he wants to marry you, that you are the only one, that he doesn’t know what he would  do without you, etc. Notice that it is easy to say these words, as it is easy to say any word, even easier than it is for me to type these words, easier and quicker. It is much more difficult and a totally different kind of endeavor to put any of these words into action.

I would say, if you were to do the exercise of listing expectations from each other, add a second part: what is each willing to do to bring these expectations into fruition, practically speaking.

anita