Dear riris:

The way you tell your story here, it feels like it is entertaining to you, sort of you being captivated by your own story, including by the theme of the story: “toxic behavior”. I wonder if you feel powerful as you perceive leaving victims as you move about toxically.

This man you got involved with, he knew you were married from the very beginning, didn’t he? How is it then that he is the victim, is he not the victimizer of your husband, a co-victimizer (assuming your husband trusts you and is loyal to you)?

anita