Everyone is going to think I’m insensitive for saying this. Gigi, you and your husband aren’t a couple anymore. The love died. Divorce him, try to get custody of your son, and then your carefree love days will start anew with your conflicted coworker. You want to know what I think? It was a sign that you had to meet your co-worker. Because if you didn’t, you never would have known that you had marital problems. He has marital problems too. You both are in unhappy marriages. I know separating from someone you married isn’t easy at all, but it will make both of you happier in the long run. But I want to know more about your husband and co-worker’s personalities. Why are you attracted to them? I’m dying to know. Plus,you know what they say: Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

I should also mention that I’m not a marriage counselor, nor am I a relationship expert. I’m just giving advice on what I would do in a situation.