So the biggest one would be this. We spent a lot of time camping throughout the year. He had a fantastic group of people we camped with. Me and mine got along with them. There was a lot of night campfires and he was famous for his “Irish goodbyes” meaning he’d get up to pee or get another drink then go to bed with out anyone knowing. That’s totally cool except a lot of times he wouldn’t tell me. I told tell him it’s ok he does that but just let me know because it hurt my feelings that he didn’t say goodnight. Once he knew that he would sometimes tell me and I’d be ok with it then sometimes he wouldn’t and it’d bother me.