Dear Joe:

If asking her to leave is not an option, maybe you can leave and she and her children can continue to live where you are living? I  don’t know if you make enough money to afford such an arrangement.

Maybe instead of you babysitting her children, a child care can be arranged, some subsidized childcare, financed by a government agency helping single mothers?

How are your children getting along  (0r do they?) with your girlfriend and her children? Are they okay with this new arrangement, I wonder.

anita