Dear Jackie:

Yes, it makes sense to me. I read some of your sharing in your previous threads as well as your sharing here, and I don’t think you can have that “carefree.. sex without a relationship”, not without a whole lot of the wine you mentioned that you had that night with him. You value a committed relationship, loyalty, dedication, is my understanding. Sex for fun only, I don’t think you can be at peace with that.

And so, what I would do if I was you, would be to suggest a relationship to him, suggest to get together to talk, maybe in a coffee shop or a quiet, casual restaurant, so to explore a relationship. That is, if he is available still and not in a relationship with another woman.

anita