Dear shypshnius:

Three weeks ago she left to another country to make some money, you wrote, and she expressed to you that “she feels quite depressed there and is usually sad/ in a bad mood”. A little while later she ended the communication with you. When you asked her what was wrong, she told you that “she was getting really attached to(you) and she doesn’t want it”.

It reads believable to me that a person having left their home to another country, not having family/ friends there, will feel lonely, depressed and in a bad mood, like she told you. Such feelings could have caused her to want more communication with you, not less, or none.

Sometimes a person who needs someone else too much feels more comfortable not having contact with that person, it takes away the desperation, the wanting, makes being alone more comfortable.

There are other possibilities. What do you think so far?

anita