“Sometimes a person who needs someone else too much feels more comfortable not having contact with that person, it takes away the desperation, the wanting, makes being alone more comfortable.”

This was actually very well said, i have the same opinion as you.. I know in fact that she did feel depressed there, i could feel that from her voice and she even admitted that to me herself. She told me that every time she talks on phone with me, she gets more and more attached. She also mentioned that she has a hard time sleeping too. Maybe that’s the reason she wants to cut off the contact for now. I have a feeling that she will reach out to me again, probably in 2-3 weeks when she comes back. I just don’t know how i should react when she reaches out again. I was thinking of saying something like: ” I’m not a toy you put on a shelf until you decide you want me again.”