Dear Riris:

You are welcome and thank you for appreciating my input to you. I didn’t understand the last part of your recent post and hope you can explain it to me:

“now he’s angry”- who is angry, is it the man you had the affair with? If so, what contact do you have with him and what is he angry about? I also didn’t understand why you believe that you hurt him, how is he hurt?

Regarding your husband, you wrote that sometimes you want to start fresh by telling him the truth, what truth that he doesn’t now know will you be telling him?

anita