* Dear Inky:

An  early Merry Christmas and happy holiday season!

Dear Tahlullah:

I wasn’t  at the  computer when you posted yesterday and read  your thread a few moments ago. I am not clear about the relationship with this man: has there been physical intimacy/ sex between the two of you all these years, at times during these  decades that  he’s been in your life; have the two of you been individually involved  in intimate relationships with other people while  being in each other’s life all these  years?

What  was the nature of the relationship?

anita