Hi Ian,

It seems to me you were filling in the void your ex left and now that void is empty again you are feeling worse than ever. You replaced those feelings with the new girl but only made you feel 10 times worse. The right thing to do is take time to yourself, learn to love yourself, try new things, surround yourself with positivity and within time, when you have a lot of self love, that void will be filled on its own. You moved on in an unhealthy way, when you have healed and you are strong as a person, without needing anyone to keep you happy, that is when you will be able to find the right one.