Dear Nikkole:

Thank you for your comment on my video editing of my life.

So according to my understanding you are working in the same grocery store for 10 years, not making enough money to be financially independent from your parents. Your father and  sister are managers there (not owners or co-owners, but employees), and so they  have better salaries than you do. For some reason, you are not a manager there yourself.

* A thought: is it possible that if there were three  family members  working  there, all managers, the company will be accused for nepotism and that concern is what is keeping you in a lower paying, non-managerial position?

You wrote earlier that you are financially dependent  on your parents, that it is one reason you can’t consider limiting contact with them. Problem is you are working full time for  so long and you are not financially independent and your parents’ financial help was not enough to allow you to do the nursing program- this is  why you had to work on the weekends during the grueling Mon-Fri nursing  program, an impossibility for any person, I think.

How can anyone do Mon-Fri nursing and work weekends…?

Too little of a financial help from your parents, just enough to keep your life.. not making sense, that is, stuck in a job that doesn’t pay enough. What would be the disadvantage then in moving out of your parents’ and living far away, how can your life be worse?

Looking forward to read your thoughts about what I wrote here.

anita