Dear Sabrina:

You wrote in your original post that your friend who introduced this man to you didn’t tell you any details about him, “fearing I would not agree to the date if I found a single flaw”. The date was great but you were alarmed by this  one single flaw, a six years age difference. Now  you feel better about  it, your anxiety eased.

Problem is, you will likely  find  another possible flaw. It  is the nature of anxiety to look for such. If and when you do, if your anxiety persists and this is a pattern, making a relationship with a decent (though imperfect) man impossible, it  will be a good idea for you to attend quality psychotherapy to manage and heal from your anxiety.

anita