Dear Gabriela:

Reading your account, regarding his behavior, I had the image of a kid playing  in his room with toys, building stuff, making structures out of blocks, then he gets frustrated and destroys all that  he  built and  exits his room, done.

Reads like he was juggling  conflicting emotions for a while ex girlfriend, new girlfriend, back and  forth, lots  happening that you were and are  not  aware  of, having been  aware only of your interactions with him, not of her interactions  with him at the same time period,

and at one point, he got frustrated and was  done with  everything.

What remained was two  frustrated women, sort of like the toys in the room, left disorganized,  pieces thrown everywhere.

Maybe  her part in his growing frustration  was  stronger than yours, that is, maybe  she pursued  him aggressively while you pursued him gently, I don’t  know. But regardless, he got frustrated and was done. So he is done, for now, at least.

What do you think?

anita