Dear Eli:

I know that for us to be good people, we have to first think about the welfare of our children, all minor age children. This is what makes us good people, when we have their health in mind, their physical and mental  health. His children, five years old, twelve and sixteen, they all need the same thing: peace and calm in their homes.

If your relationship with  their father brings  about war in their homes, fights between their parents, then you must end the relationship with their father immediately.

I asked you if you’d be hungry or homeless earlier, if you didn’t have his financial support. See, his children need him in so many ways, financially, but equally as important, or more important, they need him to be calm, they need their mother calm, so that they do not live in fear.

Talk to him, direct  his attention to their well being, as well as your attention. After that, then direct your attention to  your self  interest.

Do you agree with me?

anita