Dear N:

I didn’t understand your recent post. Let’s take the first couple of sentences in the first paragraph:

“I know it takes work”- what is it, specifically?

“I know no one is truly ecstatic about the mundane, but most people would rather boring and mundane as opposed to sad or negative things”-

earlier you wrote: “Because  I don’t want to be a buzzkill … so I get it out in spurts and then try to stay cool and collected  most of the time”- the spurts you mentioned, are those “boring and mundane” you mentioned in the second sentence, or is it the “negative things”?

In other words, what is the nature of the buzzkill you referred to earlier?

anita