I was referring to when you’d said that they were just talking about the happy parts instead of about the reality. Yeah everyone gushes about the good but my friends have known each other since middle school so if it’s bad enough they’ll talk about it. But that means you can assume that it’s fine. No one likes paying bills but when you can afford them that means you have a good job. Relationships could get bad if you have to tell the person to do the same things over and over again, but that also means you have someone to make good times with just as well. I’m just saying that nothing is roses all the time but it’s better than nothing but mad luck and sadness

I think it’s a little bit of both. To most people it probably is just normal typical complaining. Like I complain about still not being able to get hired in my field, not being able to move out of my parents house, being single and hardly being able to date, my job now and how it’s not what I want to be doing, not having privacy for staying in my family living room…just a lot of weird stuff. And the only reason I keep trying to make things not a big deal is because of the amount of people who preach always being positive and all that, but at the same time these situations all impede on something else I’m trying to do with my life so it drives me nuts, rather than just being boring or just life stuff