Dear Freeman:

You are welcome.

Quality psychotherapy will be the best place for you to heal, it has been the beginning for me. But not all therapists are created equal, it will take a capable, caring, empathetic, hard working therapist and it will take your persistent hard work and patience over time.

There used to be, maybe still are, free support groups for people who are overly occupied with sex, similar to let’s say, Overeaters Anonymous where the overindulgence is in food, or Alcoholics Anonymous, where the overindulgence is alcohol.

If you do attend therapy, and your feelings as a child brought into awareness and processed, those emotions will stop fueling certain undesirable behaviors,  behaviors that don’t fit your values. For example, when a person becomes aware of the intense desire he had as a child for his mother’s love, that awareness will cause, over time and habit breaking practices,  the desire for food to lessen.

Post again, re-read my last post to you again, and  take your time, see  if something comes up and share it with me.

anita