Dear Eli:

You are welcome!

I am glad this man said “no second meeting”. If he wanted a second   meeting, I hope you would tell  him: “no second meeting”!

You are a person first, a person with feelings, with hopes and dreams, and you need, most importantly, to be valued a nd respected, not to used as a sexual object!

I can’t think  of a greater need, once you are fed and sheltered enough, than to be valued  and respected. It is good guideline when figuring out what relationships in your life to keep and what to end: if a person disrespects you, end that relationship, be  it a beginning relationship (this man you just had a date with) or a relationship you had all your life (your mother).

All you need is one person who values you, to start. I value you. Even though all you see are these typed words on your computer screen, there  is a person who is typing these words, and this person values you.

anita