Dear Ben:

The sensation in your upper back advancing a bit to your  arms and legs is not an  indication of your relationship being right or wrong for you, unless your girlfriend hit you on the upper back intentionally, then it is the wrong relationship for you because  your girlfriend is physically abusing you.

You are entertaining Magical Thinking, seeing unrelated things as indications, or signs. There is no deeper meaning to your upper back sensation than what  it  actually  is. It  is not a sign to  something unrelated to  it.

anita