Thanks Anita,

I am trying to make an appointment with a Lawyer.  However, I want to give a last chance to save the marriage and normalize relationship as I know how important it is in kids life to have both parents.  My proposal to my wife will be as below :

1. She has to fully stop communicating to her sister

2. She has to contribute proportionate amount ( 30%) by the income ratio to pay bills

3. If she does not agree, will send a lawyer’s notice.  In the meantime, will try to negotiate her demand for the divorce. Will also mention to her that it may cause her to spend hefty money to contest.

4. If above does not work out, I will move out of home and start living separately for one year. May be a ground for Court to decide no fault divorce.

Please advise if these are right steps. If no, please feel free to add your suggestions.  As I mentioned earlier, I love my children very much and concerned about their future with single parenting and hence want to save marriage.

Thanks again.

Jonny