Dear hopeful80:

He ghosted you Nov 26 and  for 26 days, he  did not answer your texts, calls and messages. On Dec 22, he called you and “said he  loved me so  much that he  thought if he just disappeared, I would move on.. and ..wouldn’t have to  deal with this” (with his active alcoholism, that  is).

Within the six days after he  called you Dec 22, you brought up a NYE visit the two of you planned before his disappearance and  he  didn’t respond. You called  him and  he didn’t  call you back (“he won’t call me back”). Next you sent  him a text (because he  didn’t return your phone call or calls), breaking up with him.

Only there was no relationship to break up when you broke  up with him, was there?

The reason I am asking this question, right above, is that I am concerned that he  may  call you again, and being “hopeful” (your user name), you may be back to a relationship that didn’t exist at all since  Nov 26, if I understand correctly.

anita