Hi Anita

My friend recently called me selfish as I’m not aware of how my behaviours affect others, did explain my thinking process though. Another friend last year blocked me because I always needed constant validation and reassurance and he thought I was neglecting him

I can’t remember when it first started, been really bad over the past four years though. As to why I guess…whenever I end up finding someone that likes me as a friend, I kind of end up loving that person so much it sucks the energy out of them by asking the same things over and over again. I think it’s because I’m scared that if I don’t make the effort they’ll forget about me and hate me and if they don’t message me back in a certain time frame, I assume they no longer want to he friends. I then end up asking loads of questions.

Hope it makes sense

Thanks