Dear Amanda M:

Reads to me that you have very strong emotions on the matter  because you typed so much and not clearly, so  it is difficult for me  to understand. If you choose to answer my questions, try to be calm and clear:

You wrote that you were “extremely close to” Matt.  While  in a  relationship with Pat, before and after the marriage? And  what do you mean be extremely close?

When you picked Matt’s type in a bar, what do you mean by it,  can  you elaborate on what  you said, how it transpired, this kind  of activity?

What were  the complaints you expressed to Cassie about Matt (before they started dating)?

anita