Dear  Jack:

In your  original post you wrote: “if she wants  to be with me she should not want  to wait”- true love is patient, if  she truly loves you she will  want  to wait. It  is desperation, not love, that makes us rush, makes  us want  to be  with a person right-now-and-no-matter-what.

Did you attend and can you  now attend quality psychotherapy?  Maybe if you do, and if it helps you a lot, then she will have what she  is  waiting for, a less desperate, more patient you?

I will  be away from the computer  soon for the next  fifteen hours  or so. I hope to read from you when I am back. Please  be good to yourself!

anita