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Csaba
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Thank you for the answers. Honestly I did not see much anger between them, because they always resolved thing through communication privately. I did not even know for a long time that they had disagreements. Towards me that is anoher story. Both of them loved me and were very patient with me and it was very rare that they were angry at me. I have a hard time trying to find a time they were. Maybe once. As a kid I was very slothful and hard to motivate (impossible to). They never yelled at me. I received one smack from father, which was not even a smack since it did not hurt and I was way out of line at a family gathering and I did not control my emotions and totally deserved it (even I felt it since he never did anything close to this),  and honestly it was no big deal, we talked about it minutes later and everything was happy. It’s weird since the girls I am attracted to are complete opposites of them, they don’t share any traits whatsoever.

One thing that comes to my mind where they had their differences was sex. Father worked a lot and my mother raised 3 kids and I know that he wanted more but did not get as much. Honestly I though this is common among couples that the sex was not as much after the kids arrived, knowing them they probably would have solved it if they would have had the time but they had lot to do. This is the only part where I want a relationship that is improved over theirs since I have a very high libido and can’t be with anyone who only wants to have sex like 1-2 a week. But other than that I want to model what they had, so why am I attracted to the complete opposite? Usually these girls have lots of problems regarding their intimate world and I mostly failed in finding somebody amongs them who would love to have sex like once a day which is what I am looking for.

But anyway, even if they were angry at me I mostly did not feel anything from it. If I did anything where I would be angry or did something that hurt them they mostly solved it by coming to me a few minutes later and talking about it in a calm manner and we would solve it in a matter of minutes. They did not keep it in them, nor did they unleash it at me. They just waited a few minutes, we talked and it was over. Did I answer the question or is it something else you wanted to know, Anita?