It could be, I don’t know how they solve this among themselves. He told me that this was never the main point for him a relationship, he had a hard childhood and wanted to have the best family and give all to his children which he did an awesome job at. I am sure he was frustrated but in his mind there were more important things in  that relationship. On the other hand I don’t know what goes on in his soul and there could be truth to what you said, I don’t know. What wre you trying to say with this, Anita?