Dear Marissa:

You have a boyfriend, Kendall has  a husband. When you and  Kendall engage in any sexual activity, she  is cheating on her husband and you are cheating on your boyfriend.

At this point, she is no longer a friend, but a person with whom you engaged with sexually and the two of you are sexually attracted to each other, inclined to resume sexual interactions.

If you don’t want  to cheat again on your boyfriend or to participate in her cheating on her husband, better cancel the travel plans or plan it in such way that  the two of you will not find yourselves together, alone, during  or after drinking.

anita