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Dear afeels:
I didn’t know you posted about four hours ago until a couple of minutes ago (didn’t reflect under Topics). This is what I wrote to you earlier, copied it in my files so to paste later, if I got your permission to address the topic, which I got. So here it is:
Having read your posts in the past, it was quite clear to me that you are a heterosexual woman, as heterosexual or straight as can be. But notice this: in a jail situation, where only women are available, heterosexual women engage sexually with other women because men are not available. It is so because pleasant sexual sensations are possible to be brought about by women, not only by men. Also, young children experiment sexually, often with the same sex because sexual sensations are pleasant regardless of the sex of the person brining about those sensations.
One more thing, there are people, mostly women, I think, who label themselves “asexual”. But biologically, there is no such thing as an asexual human, not in 99.9% of humans (certain abnormalities taken into consideration). The asexual feelings, or lack of sexual feelings around any person are born out of fear or anger at people.
You are not asexual, that is, you experience sexual attraction but you are also afraid and angry. It is the fear and anger that interfere with the expression of your sexuality.
Did I address your post before last (that post still is not clear to me)?
anita