Hi Anita

yes , I’ve realised that the moment to start living your life and not beg someone to love you back or take you in their life , they get attracted to you more . That’s what happened when I stopped chasing my ex Boyfriend . When he broke up with me stating some lame family stuff ,I was shocked and broken and tried all my means to get him back . But after a month I had it enough I realised it wasn’t worth then I started prioritising my own life and take care of myself . Worked for my own improvement the moment he got the vibe that I’m not interested in pursuing him again he started contacting me and slowly making advances.

And I got a Job which he can never even dream of because I worked so hard for it .

now he wanted to marry me and started giving excuse that he always loved me but was just taking time to sort of things with his family . He wanted to do it alone because it’s was getting too taxing for him with me on one side and his family on another . Anyway the time when we were not in contact with eachother gave me a new prespective of life and made me realise what was I missing . And when he came back begging I didn’t allow him

I dont hate for him now ,but still what he did was not right , I feel that . But I’m Glad he did ,my life is much better then I was with him .With him it was so much uncertainty,anxiety , Low self esteem and fear of not being good to impress his family , wanting validation ..phew

You are right may be I want him to regret . But never want to go back .

Btw I tell my fiancé whenever I have a conversation with my ex or even show him his messages .

Thank you