Dear Janush:

I am glad to read your update, and that the letter helps. Remember it in the future, as you may need to write a letter to her again, it is a better way to communicate for many because the person writing the letter has all the time in the world, and the calm required to express oneself thoroughly, not in any rush. The person reading the letter doesn’t have the pressure of responding quickly and can take her time, respond when she is ready.

Effective communication is necessary for a relationship to be honest, close and loving. She needs to tell you what bothers her and you need to do the same, in a calm and peaceful way, and the two of you need to resolve misunderstandings and conflicts in a peaceful way that will satisfy both parties.

Post again anytime you’d like.

anita