Dear Eeman:

The traveling and focusing on your education, looking after yourself, these are great things. But you can’t fix a relationship outside of the relationship. Once you are back with the guy, all the problems from the past are back. Relationship problems can be addressed and corrected only in the context of the relationship.

The problem in the relationship is that he “engage(d) in relations outside our relationship”. Will you tell me about what he did and about the “toxic whirlwind” that followed?

anita