Dear H:

Reads like too many people involved, gossip and whatnot. Or the possibility of gossip.

I suppose if you have a group of friends, it is difficult to  have separate, individual relationships with different individuals within the group. Better keep the relationships with all members light and transparent to all, no secrets, no talks with individuals about the others.

So a personal relationship with an individual would mean that you are not friends with her boyfriend or her other friends outside the relationship with the one friend.

She blocked you, better respect that blocking  and no longer tried  to reach her.

anita