Dear Lily:

You are welcome.

“People are not just black and white, good or bad. Sometimes he was very sweet and genuine”- I am sure he was. Everyone is sometimes sweet and genuine, I don’t have a reason to think K was an exception.

But when a person repeatedly doesn’t answer your messages, this is a pattern of behavior that the sometimes-very-sweet-and-genuine times don’t make up for. When interacting with others and getting to know others we have to watch for patterns of behaviors, behaviors that repeat themselves. If such behaviors are dishonest, unkind, even rude and cruel, better reject those people from our personal lives. Don’t you think?

anita