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February 2, 2019 at 8:43 am
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AnonymousGuest
Dear H/Harminder:
When you find yourself obsessing about whether a friend or former friend is angry at you, mind the harm factor (as in your name, harm minder?), ask yourself: what is the harm here, what is the danger to me?
If a person stops communicating with you, what is the harm to you?
It feels badly, but if you mind the harm factor and realize there really is no danger to you, you will feel better.
anita
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