Dear Kkasxo,

I am truly sympathizing with your pain and frustration. I hope you are doing better as time goes by  Although hard, it’s just a decision. We have to make it otherwise we’ll be stuck. And I refuse to be that youtube comment on a sad song saying: “it’s been a year now and I still love him” etc etc. We are strong!!! The power we don’t have is because we gifted it to our exes. It’s absurd. Let’s scold ourselves but not bully ourselves. We deserve better. In retrospect, I think that I fell so deep into him because my life had nothing in it. No friends, no job, no nothing. And it was just after finishing University, the time our personality starts to reform.

My advice to you is to make that decision. Is it gonna hurt? Yes it is. Is it gonna be hard? Yes it is? Is it gonna be like that for a long time? No, absolutely no. Every start is difficult we say here in Greece. And that is for a reason. You swift so much energy so quickly and in the opposite side, so your soul is going to freak out in the beginning. It’s like the pain after your first day at the gym. Time will pass and that won’t even hurt anymore.

I wish you all the best for this spiritual journey. I hope I see more of your progress. ♥️