Dear laelithia:

The relationship with your ex would have probably ended if you didn’t have your childhood wounds and if you didn’t try to heal those in that relationship because statistically, the vast majority of romantic relationships do end, and because when you met him he was not divorced yet and he was not ready to get into an exclusive relationship.

That night of the argument with him at the club, before getting to the club you wanted to  spend time alone with him, just you and him. He wanted you to contact your friends and meet them in a club. He was eager to socialize, to enjoy other people.

anita