Dear lilroo:

You met your boyfriend almost six months ago. He moved in with you soon after, and soon after that,(“For the past few months”), you’ve been frustrated by the incompatibility of sexual drives between the two  of you.

Maybe the number 81818 didn’t mean the two of you were meant to be together. Maybe it “felt so divine” but, well, clearly it does not feel divine anymore. “everything was great, lots of synchronicity”, but not anymore.

I think it is time to re-evaluate the relationship, have an open, honest conversation with him, or a series of conversations about what is going on and decide whether the two of you should continue the relationship living together, continue a relationship living separately or end the relationship altogether.

I hope that the fact that he is unemployed and may not have a place to live does not stand in the way of him being honest with you regarding his thoughts and feelings.

* I will be soon away from the computer for about 13 hours. I hope other members reply to you before I am back.

anita