Dear Anita,

I’d like to start off by saying thank you on behalf of everyone on this site because you seem to respond to almost everything posted. You are an angel and you will get rewarded one day. Your response was very insightful and made me view my situation from a different perspective. She wasn’t forced away from me and she did choose to leave me. If you really believe that you will be with someone forever then you would not leave them. So she was either lying to herself or to me, either way is pretty hurtful.

It also doesn’t help that she is a bridesmaid in my sisters upcoming wedding and I am a groomsman. I don’t know how I should act towards her. I am angry at her for breaking my heart so I don’t want to be friendly to her but, at the same time, she has loved me for so long and I feel like it would be selfish of me not to be nice to her. And like I said she said we are “on a break” so she agreed that we would still be able to hangout and such. But she hasn’t wanted to see me since the breakup (9 days ago) which is completely understandable, but what if she just never wants to see me again.

I always heard that women are heartbreakers and will leave you in the dust. But with her, it was different. It was like I had found the one girl in the world who was the whole package, and someone who truly loved me for me. But after this, I see that the world was right.