Hi, Serife.

Sadly, the only way to have certainty is to tell him. What if he doesn’t reject you? Even if it feels unlikely that he might accept, is it impossible?

Whenever I approach interesting women, I try to have an outlook of curiosity: tell my crush and be curious of the response she gives me. Try not to wallow in the possible consequences too much. Whatever is going to happen is going to be interesting and exciting.

Perhaps you could find someone to talk to about this. Perhaps your parents or some school social curator could help you get over your fears.

Rejections are painful, but no-one is safe from rejections. If you won’t be rejected now, you will be rejected countless times in your life. If you do get rejected, it will be a helpful experience to help you learn to get over rejections in the future.