Dear Yarina:

You are afraid of him then. He was checking on your location instead of asking you where you are at. I suppose he didn’t know you can tell that he was checking on you..?

In any case, clearly being afraid of a man is not healthy grounds for a relationship. Tell him clearly and directly, in no uncertain terms, that you are not interested in any kind of a relationship with him, do not express to him that you are afraid of him, guard your private information, keep your eyes and ears open and if he harasses you and/ or invades your privacy illegally, involve the police/ courts.

anita